in real life.

a lot of things are different in real life. the most different for me is learning how to make friends when you're not simply given a community. i call it making friends from scratch. but i guess i'm cheating a little because i knew people out here before i moved, and well, i have a church. nonetheless, it's still hard. how do you know if you're not trying hard enough to make friends, or if you're trying too hard...